Pardon my sobering thoughts my lovelies…
This year has been the year of tragedies in my personal as well as professional life, and the wheels and cogs are going crazy in my head. I know you’re saying…
However, today I’m posting my first clearly grave and serious topic! I rarely talk about solemn or sobering things on here, but this one has touched me dearly.
Please keep reading…
You see in my lifestyle of bdsm/leather; it’s a rarity that we share with our blood relatives what it is we do in our bedrooms or out on a Saturday night.
Why you ask? Judgmental-ness is a dish best served– never. That’s why! 🙂
We fear judgment, and honestly, I know people who fear exorcisms being performed on them… ok maybe not that bad, but serious ridicule and damnation in some instances.
So…where am I going with this?
Once you put it out on the interwebz it’s there forever, but you are here to maintain, and you can help keep the prying eyes from finding you. What happens when you are no longer here? I know morbid thought, right?
I told you this post was serious, and I hope you see the severity of the situation…
Who will tell your readers or internet friends you passed away?
Who will make sure your Twitter, Facebook, Linkd-in, Pinterest, and so and so forth are deleted?
Who will hide your naughty books and toys?
Who will wipe your phone of all the dirty photos? Or naughty sexting events you had with that girl on twitter?
Who is going to clean out your email box so your mother doesn’t find out what a flipping pervert you really are?
And now, I’m going to focus specifically on erotica writers that haven’t opened up to their families about what they do on the side:
Who will you leave your copyrights and royalties to; if you haven’t told anyone you are a dirty word writer?
These are all very serious questions that I think we need to ask ourselves.
Most of us are young and thinking about death seems very unimportant compared to who we’re partying with next. But after having 3 friends (1 younger than me), who had no such plan in place, die this year; I’m seriously thinking about thinking about death, and my plan if something were to happen…
Do you have a plan?
Penelope Jones- Spanking it since 1996!